How will you react when you're betrayed?

[Sanjeev]

How do you feel when you're betrayed by someone whom you trusted the most?

I will be shattered after I come to know. I may try to take revenge, as I may not be able to forget what happened to me. I know there are people who will forget that person, but I will not ever in my life.

 

[Kennysplash]

This happens often to people and I try my best to accept that life goes on. I have experienced it quite a few number of times and I have accepted the fact that life goes on even despite that. I don’t let it get to me more than is necessary.

 

[Sanjeev]

@Kennysplash That's true. We should take it lightly and not to heart, but we must take a lesson from it and not let that happen again. And we must not rely on that person if he/she is around us in our life.

 

[Starmix]

Of course, I want to kill the person betraying me. That is a sudden urge being human, and seldom can you see or hear someone laughing or singing once they are betrayed. One time, I saw my bf holding hands with another, so I stoned them, and they ran away.

 

[Starmix]

It's not easy to deal the rage once betrayed by someone you trusted your love and sincerity. Many committed murder because of betrayal. It's also not good to be impulsive. But human as we are we cannot avoid such feeling. Praying in deep to God truly helps overcome the sudden rage of anger.

 

[uptrendfinancialsignal]

Betrayal can be very painful, especially when it involves the person you really trust. Me, I just like to be quiet first. I don't react instantly because I can alter what will cause a big problem and that's why I prefer to keep quiet, especially when the issue is still very fresh. I remember a friend who disappointed me badly years ago, I just withdrew, processed everything, then cut the person off gently. No shouting, no drama. Once trust breaks like that, it's very hard for me to return as I just like to protect my peace.

 

[Sanjeev]

@uptrendfinancialsignal It's not easy, bro. When you trust someone and the person breaks your trust, it's not easy to keep quiet and feel. Almost everyone will react badly. It's obvious that the person will shout, fight, and ultimately cut off from that person. It's not easy to cut off, but it's essential to do that.

 

[Starmix]

The feeling is chaotic once the love of your life betrays you. You may plan for anything, like taking revenge, let the self accept the reality, and move on. Moving on is the best option rather than taking revenge, which may end your precious life and future in prison