How will you react when you're betrayed?

Of course, I want to kill the person betraying me. That is a sudden urge being human, and seldom can you see or hear someone laughing or singing once they are betrayed. One time, I saw my bf holding hands with another, so I stoned them, and they ran away.


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Betrayal can be very painful, especially when it involves the person you really trust. Me, I just like to be quiet first. I don't react instantly because I can alter what will cause a big problem and that's why I prefer to keep quiet, especially when the issue is still very fresh. I remember a friend who disappointed me badly years ago, I just withdrew, processed everything, then cut the person off gently. No shouting, no drama. Once trust breaks like that, it's very hard for me to return as I just like to protect my peace.
 
I we definitely be hurt if i am betrayed, especially if it's by someone i really cared about. Then again i have learnt to not expect much from people these days.
Indeed, it hurts when we are betrayed by the one we love, even a family member. There are many forms of betrayal, but the most excruciating pain is love betrayal by your beloved gf or bf. I personally experienced it in my life.
 
I'd be shocked at first, then I would be very careful. I don't usually react on the spot. I try to observe and understand the situation better before reacting. If it's a serious one, I’d cut the person off to protect myself. Betrayal is very hurtful and it can affect the trust you have in someone. I don't pray for it to happen, but if it does, I try to learn from it and move on. Honestly, it makes you wiser and more careful on who to trust.
 
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