I personally experience this. When someone is caring, thoughtful, and always wants to communicate with me, I feel like changing the beat of my heart to liking and gradually loving the person. It is easy to love. I am wondering why others say that it is hard to fall in love; perhaps they have not encountered someone superbly charming, caring, and thoughtful. Regardless of these traits, we should also not fall right away. There are also pretenders just to win the heart of someone they like, but not serious about the course of attempts, only a test of their credibility to lure someone. But the truth is, love is not felt. There are broken marriages, and the cause of that is, they failed to maintain their feelings.
Love keeps changing with changing age and stage of life. It goes more than romantic feeling. It becomes more, it's sharing life together with all ups and downs in it. It grows deep. But yes, it is not easy to maintain it if one is not nurturing it with trust, respect and open communication.
Indeed, love keeps on changing its momentum from the original to the latest if not cared for by the person he loves. Love is mysterious and sensitive, so we have to be very careful with our feelings.
Indeed loving someone is straightforward. Sustaining it? That’s the challenge. I’ve experienced relationships where the initial months are wonderful but gradually minor problems start to appear. Frankly it demands effort, patience and communication to keep love alive. At times you must battle pride, embrace imperfections and make compromises you never though. It isn’t always filled with romance; it’s complicated and exhausting sometimes.
Patience, resilience, and consistency are keys to making love grow constantly. It requires effort to make a marriage or relationship thrive. There are many broken marriages and broken relationships. They may have lacked the patience and initiative to make their love grow stronger despite the hardships and obstacles they met.
