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When love is gone

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When love is gone, never expect forgiveness from the one you betrayed. No matter how that person loved you in the past, once you hurt her feelings, the love she kept for years will disappear like smoke. When love is gone, there is no second chance for it to revive; the more hate the person feels. You may regret what you have done, but never could your love be stirred by your foul mouth and rubbish promises.

While trust is there, glorify it with sincerity and faithfulness. Love is easy to feel but hard to maintain. Just move on and make amends to the next episode of your love, should there be someone else who could love you more than your past love. :sneaky:
 
Once love fades, it's something you would feel immediately. Your conversations would be dry, then every little thing would start to annoy you, and the closeness would just disappear. I’ve experienced it before and it’s not a good feeling at all. Sometimes you try to force it, but it just drags. And other times you both just quietly drift apart without drama. Love can’t be forced. If the connection is gone, the relationship would just die.
 
Indeed, love disappears in a split second once betrayed. Humans are sensitive and vulnerable, and once the hurt prevails, it will be forever felt. Only time heals it, and with the courage of the person to move on, so he or she can find another love. This time, many lie just to obtain their desires, even if they are married or in a relationship. It is hard to find true love.
 
Uh... well, it is one think getting betrayed and it is another if it slowly fades. Sometimes even when you try your best, it doesn't mean that things will go our way.

I think that if at some point the love is not there then it is better to separate first and let some time pass before jumping to another relationship. Reflecting on why things ended and how we can do better is good to avoid repeating bad patterns. Sometimes it can be hard to realize how we contributed to extinguishing the flame.
 
eLdavis said:
One of the worse things you can ever experience is having someone who once loved you hate you. Once love turns to hate it is usually extreme.
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I agree with you, I experienced it personally. It is excruciating; the love I felt turned sour, and the man seemed so disgusting to think. I do not like to see even his shadow. Hatred dominates once you are betrayed. And love dies instantly.
 
Starmix said:
I agree with you, I experienced it personally. It is excruciating; the love I felt turned sour, and the man seemed so disgusting to think. I do not like to see even his shadow. Hatred dominates once you are betrayed. And love dies instantly.
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Lol i have also experienced it, i have actually been on both ends. The person hated me so much, and on another case i was so irritated by their characters and behaviors, i could instantly see all the nasty behaviors i used to ignore before.
 
eLdavis said:
Lol i have also experienced it, i have actually been on both ends. The person hated me so much, and on another case i was so irritated by their characters and behaviors, i could instantly see all the nasty behaviors i used to ignore before.
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Indeed, we cannot control our emotions to hate the person our hearts entrusted. There are people like that, easy to tempt and easy to commit mistakes. They are weak in principle and goal in life. They just look at the present, not the future.
 
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